It’s The Stories That Move Me
I will say it until my last breath, it’s the stories that motivate me to offer gifts that people will cherish. All the hard work it takes me to complete a special keepsake that people will pass down is worth every minute, especially when I hear the reaction of the recipient. Here is a tender story of Barbe Johnson and her late husband, Tim.
I first met Barbe last year during the shutdown of 2020. I wanted to help the community in any small way I could so I decided to do a scrub cap drive for medical staff around WNY. Even though we had never met before, Barbe was one of the many wonderful people who joined me in this task. If you’d like to read about how my amazing team of generous volunteers made and donated over 2,200+ caps to area hospitals and beyond, here’s a link to the original blog post in June of 2020 and another link to the followup I wrote in January of this year. Barbe lived quite a bit away from my shop but she gladly drove the 60+ mile distance round trip as often as 1 – 2 times a week to pickup supplies and drop off her newly sewn scrub caps. She even offered to make 100 to deliver to the hospital near her home. Everytime I’d see her during that dark time, she was always cheery and encouraging — she’s simply a wonderful woman.
This picture was taken last year on one of Barbe’s many trips to my shop to drop off newly sewn scrub caps. Even during dark times, she is always a bright light that can warm anyone’s heart.
Well, she met her match, Tim, in their teen years, they were high school sweethearts. They were married for 36 years and had 2 children together. Even after all that time, Tim would leave her sweet notes like the one below that she’s been carrying in her purse for some 15 years now. Sadly in 2010, the love of her life died from cancer. As you can imagine, nothing has stayed the same however, she is surrounded by tender notes, cards, and letters he’s given her over the years. Recently, she reached out to ask if I could make a keepsake from the heartfelt handwritten note he wrote. I was more than happy to meet the challenge.
We setup an appointment for Barbe to come into the shop and she brought several cards and notes from Tim. She not only wanted something for herself but also for gifts for her children to be given on Father’s Day.
Once we figured out what will go where, I went to work digitally cleaning up the handwritten words. She supplied artwok and away I went putting the art together into a design. as well as finding the perfect item to print it on. After sending her proofs via email, Barbe told me she had tears in her eyes just looking at them. She approved.
After isolating words from cards, notes, and letters, then removing the background and cleaning them up, I rearranged the words to fit into a frame. Above are the words that were printed for Barbe and below are for her adult children.
It was printed onto a metal surface that was then adhered to a wooden frame/plaque. Below are some pictures of Barbe holding the finished pieces in front of our shop.
Barbe was moved with emotion when she saw them for the first time in person.
What a beautiful way to preserve the handwritten words to honor him and remember the love they shared. 💞
Here’s what Barbe wrote about her children’s reaction to the gifts:
My children were so touched by the gifts, both speechless and touching their hearts. Of course there were tears.
My son’s young daughter asked “Daddy are those happy tears?”
He replied,” both happy and sad. Happy because I loved my dad, sad because I still miss him every day.”
Both kids treasure that gift as do I!
Marinette Kozlow is the owner of Inspired Buffalo LLC. She moved her family and business into the home she grew up in and where Mona, her mother, used to run a corner store named Tony’s Deli. Everyone in the neighborhood affectionately called it Mona’s and she was also dubbed the “Angel” of the corner.
You can find Marinette on her Inspired Buffalo Facebook and Instagram pages. Do you have a unique gift you would like created? Email her at mak@inspiredbuffalo.com, call 716-545-5544, or message through @inspired.buffalo on Instagram.
Maria Zwack
What an incredible story of a love that will surely last throughout all the ages My eyes are filled with tears reading this. Wishing Barbe and her wonderful family many, many blessings during the years to come.
Inspired Buffalo
She reminds me of you. You have a wonderful husband as well and you’re both adorable together! I guess the Tim’s have it! 🙂
Kathy brooks
What a wonderful gift. I am a close friend of Barbe and can attest to the love they shared. Tim was a very special guy. I still hear his laugh when we would say “ we won’t be gone long “ when we would go off to shop. Barbe is a very special person with so much to give. I am proud to be her friend. I live in Atlanta but am coming to Buffalo soon to visit her. It has been a long time. What a nice gift you have given her. God bless you. 💖
Inspired Buffalo
Hi Kathy, it was emotional for me to work on it. What a beautiful man and sweet relationship they had. I’m sorry that I didn’t get the chance to know him in person but I feel I do in a small way by working on this special project.
Inspired Buffalo
Hi Kathy, it was emotional for me to work on it. What a beautiful man and sweet relationship they had. I’m sorry that I didn’t get the chance to know him in person but I feel I do in a small way by working on this special project.